He then said that they have called us "several times" to meet with us, (This is BS, I was called once and said "I am t0o busy this week")and that they have come to my house several times but we are never home
you know, a few years ago my wife had a JC that I sat in on. (I wont go into details here) anyway, my wife was so upset because the elder that headed the JC was a stoic, self righteous snob. The kind that can NEVER give a comment at a meeting without it being counsel for everyone in the KH but him (you all know the type).
So she starts snapping back at him that he has always treated her bad and that they never tried to help us or sheperd us. He then goes on to say that "the elders" have tried several times to help us but we have never taken advantage of it. And I remember thinking "WHAT??? I have been in this hall for 15 years and I have had ONE sheparding call in that time". yes, ONE. (And that was after our PO ran off with another brothers wife and abandoned his pioneer wife of 20+ years, it was an attempt to "feel out" the affects of it on the cong.)
So I guess I am not the only one that has been fed that line??