Looks like the witnesses in our congregations here are the Watchtower Witness type then Garybuss lol!Theres only one out of them that has spoken to me and i think that might be because she was d'fd for a while so she knows what its like. She was always one of the few i really liked as well.
Thanks for your answers its sointeresting how they all differ on this as well, with the hardline stance the wt have on this subject i'm glad there are still individuals who don't totally put their beliefs before family.