I was thinking.....there's a lot of things I did BUT the difference is now I'm not worried that whatever I do could stumble someone. If I go to a strip club, so what?? If I read ANY book I want or view any movie or TV program, that's strictly MY business!
What Things Would You Not Have Done As A JW That You Would Do Now?
by minimus 82 Replies latest jw friends
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bigdreaux
minimus, she actually thinks they don't even look. like, their instincts are turned off. like a thought never enters their head. i don't believe this to be true for a second. even though you were careful not to show it, your saying you didn't even look? or think about it? i'll believe you if you say so.
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minimus
If I saw an attractive sister, I'd turn away, rather than look at her (with some lust). Now the truth is, I can scan a room and see the most attractive woman in the room in a second. (It's natural). Now....I'll look for as long as I want and might even turn my head too. But when I was an elder, I was extremely careful not to dwell upon a good looking woman's bod.
Now, I wanna see it all!
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bigdreaux
fair enough
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LearningToFly
Think for myself.
Vote.
Get and education.
Celebrate Christmas, and halloween which I love.
Go out dancing in clubs.
Read whatever I want.
Go to adult toy stores.
Enjoy a drinky now and then.
Talk to other disfellowshiped people.
ect... ect... ect...
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loosie
she actually thinks they don't even look. like, their instincts are turned off.
A man is a man no matter his religion.
Geez look please mama don't get all dressed up for nothing.
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FreeGirl2006
Show off the "twins"
Went to a male strip joint in New Orleans
Attend school guilt free
Have dates with interesting men (most of the time)
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EarthMan
Here's my list. Most of the items listed are things that I've already done or am doing right now. Some I have yet to get around to doing...
vote
smoke
join the military
play the lotto
play the ponies
gamble in Vegas
have an illicit affair
get stinkin' drunk (don't do that very often anymore)
get a college education
visit churches, mosques, Buddhist temples, Hindu temples, etc.
donate money and time to NGO's and charities
become close friends with "worldings" of every stripe or persuasion
work to build wealth for myself
plan for my retirement
think outside the WT box (or cage)
give a person down on their luck some money, food, or whatever they may need at that moment
try to live a life free of all guilt, fear, regrets, and despair.
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Hortensia
vote, cuss, stay out late, hang out with bad association, haven't worn a bra in 17 years, I've had massage at a nude joint in San Diego, screwed around for a few years after fading, had a good time, read what I want, think what I want, go where I want.
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Sassy
sex without marriage
I forgot about that one....
I definately have done that....
even lived in what they call sin for several years..
gamble in Vegas
shoot.. I forgot that one too.. oh yeah.. I've done that