Sorry, I got your user name wrong the first time. I think you are seeing things in the scriptures that take some stretch of the imagination. I certainly don't have answers to a lot of what is in there. But I do not see the gay thing everywhere you do. A different perspecctive, I suppose.
Yes, it is subtle application, but it's part of the entire issue so I included it. I don't expect everyone to see it as I might. In fact, I'm sure some would flatly refuse the idea that being gay is a "gift"; that's just beyond their comprehension though that person could be celibate.
But some scholarly commentors might take the sexist view that women are put down in the Bible and sort of blamed for assisting Adam to sin, even though the Bible says she was thoroughly deceived. Also women were the bane of temptation for false religion, the foreign wives being blamed for the downfall of Solomon and many of the Jews and even Samson. Even in modern times, often beautiful women are used to set up and turn spies and all that. It's classic. So the beautiful woman and the weakness for love and lust is a key player in the heterosexual world. Some men sell out their country for the love of a beautiful woman. But what effect would the most beautiful woman have on a gay man? He's exempt from "Eve" -- thus, what a "gift" not to share the weakness of straight men for beautiful women, etc. Prostitution is the oldest business in the world, right?
So there is a lot to consider and we know from the beginning we'll only scratch the surface and view this from the sidelines.
JC