Journey-on,
Sure, and no need to feel bad. I had the same problem with Paul for many years. When it all finally cleared up it turned out to be nothing more than a problem with punctuation and style. And notable scholars get it wrong as do most denominations. Strange since it is only necessary to read it more carefully. Translators did not help either and make it look bad for Paul. But when I saw that even James the main instigator of this theology wanted Paul to take Nazarite vows to prove he still kept the Law and that Christian Jews that supported James tried to kill Paul, the light started to go on. Then it all made sense. Takes a little time and effort.
Joseph
P.S. You know that Jesus did something much like Paul did when he used the Samaritan woman to preach the good news which the apostles would have not approved of. This should have been enough of a lesson for them but they and the Jews still did not get it. So the problem went on for over 40 years and in many congregations today is still going on. No wonder He had use Paul instead of one of His own disciples to replace Judas. The apostles failed Him on this one and it took Paul to correct Peter, John and James who finally got the message after several tries.
JM