A few months ago i finally told my wife it was all lies. It did not go well. But I had concluded in my own mind that if I could not trust and speak to my own wife, then what
kind of marriage did I really have?
While she maintains she loves me, she has contempt for me because I dared to question the Borg. And contempt is a harbinger of doom.
It is personal and there are no good answers for anyone.
All the best.