Hey guy don't go to the alcohol self destruction routine it's not at worth it and may indeed worsen your personal problem
Be a beacon of light so that your wife can be attracted and drawn toward you. ( show her that you've found something new and better than religion )
Having a strong healthy and positive personality will only do good for you and your marriage
Be your own role model for your wife and yourself and this doesn't take any assistance from a doe-brained religion to accomplish.....trust me.
If your down in the dumps and feeling low, go out for a walk and get some fresh air, it will make you feel better and make you think better......try it !
Take care .............. Homer