Friendship, Trevor, and Oscar!

by purplesofa 41 Replies latest jw friends

  • deaconbluez
    deaconbluez

    lol, I have a son older than you...........dont want anymore kids...........but i like how they are made~!~!~!

    and to not represent..............its HOTFLASH hot.........

    hmm mildly turned on

  • unbeliever
    unbeliever
    Sadly, I may have not learned anything from this, I will continue to love and reach out.

    That is so good to hear. There are so many good people on this board. One person with multiple personalities should not be given the power to ruin it for everyone else.

  • betterdaze
    betterdaze

    I agree, Trevor deserves an Oscar!

    Over the head and about the face a few times until his wig falls off.

    ~Sue

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    Maybe a good analogy. Perhaps all the "emotional investment" in internet persona created by people we have never met, or barely met, is a form of escapism, not unlike movies. And then again, we get to actually act in this strangers play. Yay us.

    Whatever it is, it's a choice. I guess if you're genuine, it's never a "bad" choice, but like all choices, there are criteria involved, whether we evaluate said criteria consciously or subconsciously. For me, there have been literally hundreds of touching, heart-wrenching human drama stories, all of them very real, to cross my psychic-radar-screen since I saw the first post about "linda" being sick from pancreatic cancer a few months ago. I can't put emotional investment into them all, but several of them have touched me deeply.

    Meanwhile, a very dear friend of mine has chosen to go home from the hospital, utilize hospice, and let what happens from pancreatic cancer happen.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    Tis the season for wackos!!!!

  • fifi40
    fifi40

    Go away saddo with your sick little mind....meant for our newbie visitor

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa
    Meanwhile, a very dear friend of mine has chosen to go home from the hospital, utilize hospice, and let what happens from pancreatic cancer happen.

    She is the person I would like to send a drawing to, if possible? It would be healing for me as well.

    purps

  • Burger Time
    Burger Time

    Purps unfortunatly it was a tough lesson to learn (although you say nothing was learned). That is why I just don't invest time into people I have never met. Your wife is dying? Big deal. There are people that are dying 5 minutes from me, if I only looked I could help them. So why would I want to help some stranger over the internet? This may be crass but it's just the best route to take.

  • GoingGoingGone
    GoingGoingGone

    It seems that the big thread revealing this whole scandal has been locked.

    This was one comment on the last post:

    Lock down all threads with this nonsense on it. Don't give him what he wants.

    I'm sorry, and I don't mean to offend anyone, but who cares what he wants??!!? Or whether or not he gets it?? This site is all about the "real" posters, with real problems and feelings. Many of us have trust issues stemming from our WT days, or our leaving the WT, and now we've just been duped by a wack-job when we finally thought we could trust again.

    We need to talk about it, and as a fader with my husband still in, I can't just pick up the phone and discuss this with someone. I haven't said much on these threads, but reading all the exchanges is putting the pieces right in my mind, I feel.

    I hope all these threads don't get locked.

    Carry on!

    GGG

  • GoingGoingGone
    GoingGoingGone

    Oh and purps, I just wanted to tell you that you are a sweetheart, and I envy the way you can get emotionally involved. With all you've been through in your life, you still can show so much love and care to people. You're a special human being.

    GGG

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