Javagal,
I am so sorry for all that you have been through. My heart truly goes out to you. What courage you have! You will find the support you need here. Welcome to our board.
Shannon
Wow!!! Was I wrong!!!!
by javagal 14 Replies latest jw experiences
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Shaneliza
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dungbeetle
Javagal..
Welcome to the board, you will find people of every sort here, and it is never a dull moment as a result!!!
What horrendous exoeriences you have been through. I am so sorry; you have my deepest sympathy. Your children are very fortunate to have such a strong mommy.
As for your family, love is a two way street. If they have chosen their religion over you, then it might be best for your mental health and a good example for your children to respect the choices of those family members. A lot of people on this board are stuggling with this, and I have had my own version of hell as a member of a mixed family (comprised of members in, out, coming and going <sigh>). I know its so hard to know what to do.
But you are stron and experienced in the ways of the world; you will figure something out.
Hugs to you.
BITE ME, WATCHTOWER!!
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Prisca
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I am proud to meet a survivor like you. What you have gone through is unbelievable, yet you have managed to keep your own sanity. I'm sorry that your family has not supported you when you've needed it most.
I'm glad that you have been brave enough to share your story with us, and hope that you will make some good friends during your stay here.
welcome!
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outnfree
Javagirl,
Just wanted to add my welcome and tell you that I, too, feel that you have already proved your mettle and you have great strength and courage.
I also think that respecting your family's wishes to be separate from you might turn out to be a good thing for you, helping you to distance yourself from hurt.
outnfree
Par dessus toutes choses, soyez bons. La bonte est ce qui ressemble le plus a Dieu et ce qui desarme le plus les hommes -- Lacordaire
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slipnslidemaster
Sounds like you have what you need. Worldly friends that look after you and care for you. You are ahead of the game. Good for you that you built a support system for yourself.
Now, cut your parents loose. You won't change them. You can't help them. They will always cause you grief and pain. Cut them loose.
yes, it's hard but you NEED to start taking care of yourself and stopping the hurt and pain no matter where it comes from. Never close the door on them but protect yourself emotionally from them.
Slipnslidemaster:"The average person thinks he isn't."
- Father Larry Lorenzoni