Reflection in the Mirror ...

by compound complex 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    Mom used to laugh when I, as a little boy, would look into the mirror and ask my reflection, "Why am I so uggily?" Well, I should have felt some reassurance when Auntie Rose took me into her capacious arms and declared, "You're a cute little fart!"

    Certainly the old dear was dotty as well as biased toward me - rightly so, I would imagine. Eventually I got on with my life and threw myself into interests peculiar to myself, thereby becoming less concerned about my appearance.

    Then, however, happened the teen years - suddenly one's reflection becomes the focal point of the morning pre-school ritual. Why can't I look like Anthony Adonis? Then I wouldn't have to work so hard pulling all the loose parts together every morning.

    Fast-forward forty years - I'm just grateful that I clean up pretty nice! My main concern now is that I remember to wear my glasses while shaving - I hate finding later in the day all those bristly spots I missed ... when I even bother to shave....

    AND YOU? What about your reflection in the mirror?

    CoCo

  • free2beme
    free2beme

    I look and think this, "I thought I would look older then this at this age, but I do not. Does that mean I thought this age was older looking as a child or am I just young looking? Either way, I need to lose some weight that center section got to large." Then I brush my teeth, do the hair, and go to work.

  • Happy Harvester
    Happy Harvester

    The people-pleaser in me has been in the slow process of eroding away for years and years; lately it seems to have shattered. I am in danger of recognizing the true and complete narcissist in me. Truly. It is a well-illuminated mirror; and many others are reflected in the background.

  • GentlyFeral
    GentlyFeral

    Happy Harvester,

    I am in danger of recognizing the true and complete narcissist in me. Truly. It is a well-illuminated mirror; and many others are reflected in the background.

    It's funny because it's true! And poetic. :D

    Well, my usual reaction is: "So you're fat. It drapes nice. Smile, and no one will notice the thinning hair and pockmarks." And they don't, apparently.

    gentlyferal

  • Hortensia
    Hortensia

    well, I don't look as old as I am, mainly because I am mostly cheerful, I guess. But I am getting to look more and more like my mother every year - not sure I like that.

  • *summer*
    *summer*

    I don't see anything. I am afraid I am invisible.

  • Sad emo
    Sad emo

    Strange you started this thread CoCo, only this afternoon I looked at myself in the mirror and told myself I'm an ugly fat cow.

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    My mirror is magnified times 8 with a light around it. What relects back is frightening that close up. I quickly go into denial, slather on the makeup and face the world. Checking in a regular mirror...I guess I pass.

    r.

  • jaguarbass
    jaguarbass

    You dont look so bad in your Avatar. I wish I still looked like mine. Maybe if I let my hair grow.

  • changeling
    changeling

    Get contact lenses dear CoCo.

    I put mine in first thing in the AM.

    I then jump in the shower and am able to see all the dirt on me and the shower walls that I otherwise would miss.

    changeling

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