(((shell)))
Very sad. Take time to cry and feel angry. Then you must move right along, one day at a time. For your children. But most of all, for YOU.
Love & prayers sent your way...
My Mum's gone
by shell69 40 Replies latest jw friends
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KW13
That is awful! No wonder you are feeling so down. Is there any way you can discover where she went? For approx 6 Dollars a friend of mine from the UK (in pounds of course) found out where her ex-husband lives and got Child Support Money out of him. Thing is, i'd let ya Mother move and settle first to establish where she is so there is things to follow. Excuse lack of Quotation/space i am in firefox lol.
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Emma
What a cruel thing. I hope she knew that and that it went against her motherly insticts. When my mom sold the family home, she phoned me less than 24 hours ahead of the move to see if I wanted to have coffee the next morning. I was struggling with two jobs, two kids, and could not drop everything to go see her. I can't bring myself to go by the house. I hope you got some kind of closure in stopping by your old home.
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skeeter1
Shell,
Your mom is a mentally ill individual. Maybe one day she will get help. You can not change her, but accept that she does not know what she is doing.
I'm sure you are a much better mother than her. You have us, for what we're worth.
Skeeter
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shell69
Thats the tough bit. I am made to feel like its me whose the scum bag in all of this, abandoning my faith and my family, but I can categorically state that I would never ever ever treat any of my children like that.
I love my children if they grew two heads! I would love my children even if they went back to the religion, I would not cut them out of my life. These people are wicked.
Shell
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BFD
It makes me sad to read stories like this over and over again. I am sorry you mum is treating you so badly. It reminds me of the thread that Nvr started, "JW's are people, too."
They may be people but, they are wicked. No excuses!
BFD
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megsmomma
That is WICKED! I am soooo sorry. What a crap thing to do. I thought when I read your title of the thread that she died, and I know it is like she really did. My mom shuns me too, and she has told my siblings how much she "loves" me still, yet, I DO NOT THINK SHE DOES. I always think of the song "More Than Words". If you never tell someone you love them, and don't even talk to them....You DO NOT love them. I am so sad for you!
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free2think
(((((((((((((((((((shell)))))))))))))))))))
Im sorry, i cant imagine what you must be going through.
How cruel to just leave without saying anything.
hugs
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Lady Liberty
Dear Shell,
I am so sorry! How devastating!! (((HUGS)))!!!
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty
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LeslieV
Wow it never amazes me how cruel this religion is to families. I am so sorry you had to experience this.
Leslie