I agree Zena, that is why it always best when comparing ourselves we do it to the "standard" CHRIST
There we know we have failed and try to do more and better with the knowledge of his mercy and can never gloat over another that we are better. We see ourselves as we truly are and as Paul said dont compare ourselves to others
The problem with it is when we do, we will naturally gravitate to ones who dont do as much or as good, there is where we stop growing, as we feel good about ourselves, it makes us feel good, but that is where it stops. It does nothing for others,
abr