May you have peace... and thank you for attempting to reconcile the differences of those you care for in this way. It is a kind and loving thing for you to do, truly.
Just because someone doesn't believe in a god doesn't mean their view sucks.
I wholeheartedly agree, which is why I wish EVERYONE that I correspond with here peace (i.e., "May you ALL... have peace!"). Everyone. Ev-ry-one. I find it interesting that that fact is overlooked, particularly since I've been "wishing" folks here "peace" for many years, now. This is not new; it is not something I just came up with. It is my sincere hope... for EVERYONE here. True, it might be my hope that they obtain their peace, NOT the way the world gives it, but in the way my Lord gives it. But, heck, if they OBTAIN peace in their lives... on any level... in any measure... why would I not rejoice with them? I would!
I attempt to greet pretty much everyone in my life, Goph. Everyone. The person I am passing on the street, the person in the seat next to me at... whereever. If I make eye contact, I greet them. Period. I often find it a wonder that people do NOT greet each other, but simply pass by without ever looking up. In MY culture, we do that. Indeed, it is VERY rare for two black people to pass one another by without some kind of acknowledgement, even if it's just a nod. To pass by without doing so is almost anathema. We acknowledge one another, and very often try to acknowledge all others, even if it's with just a nod. True, MANY people don't want it... as is evident here. But I... "speak." I... say "good morning," "good evening"... whathaveyou. I use my "manners" and GREET people... even if I'm greeting someone who doesn't take so kindly to me.
It just means they look for meaning and love of humanity without an invisible influence.
Which is entirely their perogative to do, dear Goph'! I would also offer, however, that if one is TRULY looking for "love of humanity," perhaps one should START... with "the man/woman in the mirror"... and GIVE it. Regardless of how they feel about the individual themselves. I mean, that is what THEY want, isn't it? Acceptance? For what they DO believe... AND what they don't? Anything less is, truly, hypocrisy. No matter HOW you "color" it.
I wish you the greatest of love and peace, dear Gopher, truly, as you well know. Always.
A slave of Christ,
SA