by JH 15 Replies latest jw friends
When you gather with the same people for decades, they get to know you inside out. They know where you work, have a good idea how much money you earn, know if you have sex or not, know your personal tastes, know where you go on vacations and so on....
Were there things you were able to keep them from knowing?
I'm not falling for this. MOM, is that you?
No one ever knew that I had been married briefly to a friend that I wanted to help out with his papers. Hell, even many in my family still don't know that!
I'm not falling for this. MOM, is that you?
We're having spaghetti for dinner. Be here early, the PO wants to talk to you about something..... Now, answer my question dammit !!!
Well, he'll be interested in knowing that I went to male strip shows for my birthdays after the age of 21, attended X-mas parties, had sex with more than the two he had heard about, and secretly fantasized about him. Ok, the last one was a lie. I fantasized about his wife instead!
This ain't the way we brought you up young woman !!!
Why go to strip shows, when Jah gives us all that we need at the meetings?
I fantasized about his wife instead!
OMG, someone call 911, I think I'm going to faint.....
Well, the first time I went to the Shakey Nuts, my friend from work to me. It was a birthday surprise. And after that I found it was a fun way to be wild for the night, blow off steam. But it would be funny sitting at the meeting and a part of the show would replay in my head. I just smiled to myself. People probably thought, "oh, she's so happy to be here."
Heck yeah!
I know about a lot hanky panky between bros and sis from different elder's marriages. And they look so holy. If they knew I know. LOL
-ootb.
I never gave up my worldly friends. I just didn't talk about them. My worldly friends were better friends than any witnesses. When I left JWS I still had my real friends.
C'moooooooooooon, say what you know...
