Jayhawk, you are absolutely right. Once a restraining order is filed any party, the filer or respondent that goes against the restraining order is in violation and subject to prosecution. If Bill needs to address or converse with any of the elders from his congregation (and he probably will) he himself can be held in violation of the restraining order.
It doesn't take much to spot an elder at your door. Ignoring them is an effective way of making your point. Don't play into their hands, you can bet the elders sent were not their on their own accord but that of the society and the advice of their legal team. Bill is way too far into this for it to be handled by the local congregation. You can bet they are getting exact and precise orders of exactly what to say and what to do from HQ.
Hang in there Bill.
Dave