Dear Friends
Thank you all so much for your encouraging words and support! Blackpearl and I really appreciate everyone of you!!
Dear Thomas Covenant- I wish I would have said what you said!! It would have been so funny to see their reaction to that!!! HA HA HA!!
Dear Randy- I have read those numbers over and over. From where I can't recall. In the heat of the moment that is what came to mind. It certainly brought home the point that there are definately more then a "few" isolated cases, as the CO would have had wanted me to believe.
Dear TruthSeeker- Well, our relationship with my in-laws has been almost nonexistant for 3 years. It was my mother in-law who decided to tell a whole group visiting a sister what our issues with 607 were. When I found out and confronted her, she was immediatley on the defence, and with a raised voice said, "I will tell who ever the HELL I want to tell!!" From then on we had no relationship. And honestly we haven't for years before that.
Last night after my father in-law left, he went home and obviously told her about our celebrating Christmas. My father in-law called here and asked my husband if as one last ditch effort would he consider talking with the CO? My mother in-law was screaming in the back ground.. My husband said," Gee Dad, its really weird..not 10 minutes after you left he showed up here." His dads only word was,"Oh." Then my mother in-law grabbed the phone from him, and began the whole.."How dare you...how dare.. you you have been trained better then that!!!" Mind you my husband is almost 45 years old!!! She gets into these flying rages all the time, (one big reason we have never been able to have a relationship). So my husband just hung up on her. My father in law called back and left a message saying.."You mother just loves you...." (Funny way of showing it don't you think??) Anyhow...it hurts my husband that his parents are hurting, and it does make me sad too, but we cannot live the rest of our life worried about what other people think. Especially when they refuse to listen to reason.
Again...Thank you all for your replys and intrest in reading this lengthy story. We love you all....and "MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!"
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty