I am trying to understand my cat

by Fisherman 60 Replies latest jw friends

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    You now have a cat and they rule....do not forget that. As far as protecting a couch or carpet.....good luck.

    Cat's are extemely independent expecially if you introduce and adobt another one...no more worries about entertaining and pettting your present baby.

    I have had cats for years, and each cat taught the next cat they did not need a cat box....outside they all went and never have any cats in my house had a mistake.

    I now have two 100 plus pound Dobermans who have never been near cats....and they love my cat, they allow her to eat out of thier dishes (before they eat)....and if they sniff her too much they get their noses swiped with claws. (Both come whimpering to me for help)......

    This should tell you the power and intelligence of cats....they are the top animals in a house and extremely intelligent.

    Enjoy your cat and get another one to keep 'em busy.

    r.

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    Cats don't know how small they are. They devolved from bigger cats, but they have not yet realised that fact. They still think that they are 150 pounds;-) S Ps, i love my kittie

  • BreakingAway
    BreakingAway

    I've had cats all my life and your cat sounds very normal.They're like little kids that never want to grow up and just want to play.Most love attention.Another thing to keep in mind is that cats may at times claw or chew on you but they usually do NOT mean to hurt you.Cats have thicker skin than humans and it's topped with a thick layer of hair so when they play with each other it's not painful but we humans scratch easily.You're it's playmate/companion and it wants to have fun !

  • Fisherman
    Fisherman

    Breakingaway. It is funny how my cat can so quicky distinguish between my flesh and my clothers. He attcahes his claws to my clothes but ALWAYS soft paws when he touches my body except in the hunting mode. Another thhing Restrangled, sometimes he bites me by surprise (softly never evr hard) or if I do not pet him when he grabs my hand and pets himself with my hand then he bites my hand but soft.

    I am a little afraid of him when he is in the hunting mode. One time he grabbed my hand and arm with his front paws and used his back paws to kinda scratch my am moving his back paws up and down many times while he was grabbing me with his front claws and teeth, He ddint hurt me with his front paws and teeth but I felt a little scratched with his back paws. Why did he dod that playing or was he in a mood?

  • Sawyer
    Sawyer

    "A cat cannot be trained by a human and will never respond to discipline of any sort, leashes......etc"

    Sorry, but you are very, very wrong. I have walked cats on leashes for more than 10 years. If they go outside, they are on a leash. All my cats have been trained where they can/cannot sit, jump, scratch, etc. It just takes a little investment of time upfront, and then you're done. That word NO and the water sprayers mentioned earlier are very important!

    I've never had a cat that's not trained. I wouldn't want one that wasn't. To keep your cat from scratching where he is not supposed to, you will have to get a scratching post or posts or objects that are for the cat alone to mark his territory. That's why they go back to the same spots, to mark territory. Some cats will naturally adopt the scratching post, but others will not. I think sometimes people expect the cat to realize that hey- I bought you a scratching post - don't you see it? Just like everything else, you have to teach them that the object is theirs to scratch at will. How else will a cat know that he is allowed to scratch on some things and not others?

    Get your scratching post. In my experience, those covered with sisal rope work tons better than the ones covered with carpet. And not the ones that are 'straight up' in design, get them on an incline or flat so the cat can stretch while scratching. Also the carpet ones are kinda like your carpet, your lazy boy, your couch, etc. Talk about confusion! At pet stores, they also have these ramps or mats made out of corrugated (sp?) cardboard. These work great and are cheap. I've never had a cat that doesn't like to scratch on those. They usually come with catnip - sprinkle some on to attract the cat to it. (some cats are not responsive to catnip). I once had a 4x4 piece of plain old wood that my two cats used for 20 years. When they died, I got rid of that eyesore and moved to the sisal rope/cardboard ramp combo.

    After you get your post, you'll have to be diligent. When you see the cat scratching where he isn't supposed to, pick up the cat, take him to the post, and move his front feet against the post. Some words of praise here don't hurt. (ha) It usually doesn't take very long to establish this pattern. If you have something that the cat is determined to scratch, take some double sided tape and cover the spot with that if you can, or a plastic tarp if needed for a while on the couch arm, etc. Cats hate sticky on their paws. I had to plaster my kitchen sink one time with double-sided tape! (I hate cats on tables, countertops, etc.)

    I only have indoor cats now. I used to let mine go in/out as they wanted. Several years ago, I brought indoors 2 cats that were feral. One had lived outdoors for 14 years, the other for 9 years. They were wild. (and incredibly easy to train, I might add. If I didn't sit on it, they didn't jump on it.) After having them indoors for a few months, taming them, training them, etc., one day I had the door propped open because I was moving some stuff outside. They both rounded the corner, looked outside and took off for the back of the house like little bullets. "I'm not going back out there" was the message I received from that! Also, we have coyotes everywhere now, and for me, it's easier to keep them healthy and I don't have the added worries. I have two shelter cats now that were adopted as kittens. They have never been outside and have no desire to go out. My other cat was rescued from a dumpster, so we do the leash in the summer months on special occasions. So I'm lucky in that respect.

    Oh - wanted to mention that after working with animal rescue groups for many years, a lot of cat rescues are declawed cats. Some cats are okay after declawing, but some also develop behavioural problems afterwards due to the pain or discomfort they are in. So, the owners give them up.

    Teach your cat - it's really not difficult, just very repetitive. Animal experts say that cats are harder to train than dogs, because they are smarter. I don't know about that, mileage varies, but it just takes time like other things that are worthwhile. It will pay off in the long run!

    Sorry for the small novel and Good Luck to you and your kitty!

  • wednesday
    wednesday

    Sawyer

    I wish i had you at my house for a "consult' on advice regarding my two girl cats. I have had them for 2 yrs now,( they almost 3 yrs old ) they came from family and are huge "babies". The most annoying , yet endearing thing they do is sit very near me while I'm at the computer. I have said "no", gently swatted them with a fly swatter(they swat back).I guess they think I'm playing. However, I really would like to break this habit of them hanging around electronics, but wherever I'm at they go.

    also the 2 cats seem to be going through an odd stage- they are jealous of each other. I have had them for two years and these cats are sisters but are now seem hurt if i pet one instead of the other. They used to not mind if they both set in my lap etc, but now it seems they do not like to do that, one has recently started hissing at the other, so i must choose between them.

    The worst mistake i have made was ever letting them go outside. they seem to have gone "native " on me. I am slowly cutting down the hours they can spend outside.They do not have natural fears of cats that are used to living outside (cars etc) .

    They seem resistant to most training and any change in their environment or routine upsets them a lot. I once tried to bar them from the bedroom and they would just sit at the door looking forlorn and pitiful until i let them in.

    They are my babies however, and when I'm sick they will quite literally lay on me and not leave me. (much like a dog).

  • MeneMene
    MeneMene

    When you go to buy a water sprayer you may want to try the kiddie water pistols. I found them in the toy dept at WalMart - 6 to a package for a couple bucks.

    They shoot water farther than a spray bottle - and you get 6. I filled each with water and put one in each room. We had to use them a few time when he would start to scratch on the furniture. Also, at first he had decided it would be fun to jump onto the kitchen cabinet, then to the top of the refrigerator then to the top of the cabinets. There he would settle down for a nap. I caught him up there twice after I got the water pistols. They shoot far enough to reach him and after getting 'shot' twice he hasn't been back up there.

    Love my cat!!

  • Sawyer
    Sawyer

    Quote: I am a little afraid of him when he is in the hunting mode. One time he grabbed my hand and arm with his front paws and used his back paws to kinda scratch my am moving his back paws up and down many times while he was grabbing me with his front claws and teeth, He ddint hurt me with his front paws and teeth but I felt a little scratched with his back paws. Why did he dod that playing or was he in a mood?

    Hi Fisherman,

    You nailed it - his hunting instincts were at play there. He captured your arm, then tried to 'gut' it with his back claws. (not really of course, he was playing) If you ever watch the nature shows with tigers, lions, etc. you will see that after they bring down their prey, they use their back feet to rip open the soft stomach area while holding the prey's neck with their front claws/teeth. Ok - enough of that grossness... I can't watch those shows anymore. lol But, your cat was playing when the instinct took over. When I see that one coming, I get my arm away quickly - those back claws are horrible. But then again, I don't often use just my hands for playing as they get older. There's always a toy involved.

    Also, I forgot to mention in my earlier novella, that cat's in the wild mark the trees with their scratching behavior. Other lions see the marked tree and know that territory belongs to another. The higher the marks, the bigger the cat, etc. etc. Indoor cats have more need to scratch, because part of that behavior is to shed the nail sheath. Outdoor cats tend to take care of that sheath on the rough outside areas. You might sometimes see what looks like a perfect claw shell. That's the nail sheath that was aggravating them.

    It is interesting that most cats seem to use paws only when playing, but I've had some that use the claws too, no matter what. As soon as the claws hit my skin, though, I take my hand away. I've had a couple learn from that, but some never do.

  • Fisherman
    Fisherman

    SAwyer, Thanks for explaining that!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was great understanding what my cat was doing.

    Ok, I tried the water spary but this guy keeps comming back again and again and again and again and again..... Will he learn? This week I will buy this cat the scratch post with the rope suggested here too.

  • Sawyer
    Sawyer

    Wednesday,

    I would replace the fly swatter with a water pistol or water sprayer. Spray them when they are where you don't want them, or you see that "i'm about to jump up there" attitude. I usually try to spray them 'on the sly' when I can - looking at the monitor, shooting under my arm - lol - you get the picture. You're right, the fly swatter would make a good toy and I'm sure they think you are playing. I have that same problem with the computer area when one is already in my lap and another wants some affection. I try to make myself get up, displace the one from my lap, do something productive for a minute (like load the dishwasher), pet anyone that's around for a bit, then go back to the computer. It usually resolves itself that way.

    With your two girls and the hissing - the first thing I would look for is a health problem with one of them. It may be something as minor as a kidney/bladder infection, etc. but the other cat may be sensing it. If somebody stops using the litterbox all of a sudden (unless it's too dirty for their tastes) that's a definite health problem - usually kidney/bladder infection.

    When you feel they want you to choose between them, I wouldn't. Either ignore both, do what I mentioned earlier with the computer, or I would get in the floor and play with both of them. And I do mean, actually sit on the floor at their level - ha! Somebody may be feeling more neglected, for whatever reason, and that should help over time. On the other hand, there are simply some cats with a personality that makes them want to be the only cat. I really don't think that would be the case with yours, since they have been together for so long and are siblings. I currently have a female not related to two brothers. She would be perfectly happy with no other cats, but she she doesn't mind the boys being around and ignores them for the most part. She doesn't bother them and they have learned that she doesn't want to play with them. Sometimes she will hiss at them if she's in a mood. On occasion, I'll find them curled up together, but that's pretty rare.

    For anyone thinking of adding a second cat to the family, one of the things rescue groups do (or at least mine have) is to rate the cats/dogs while they are living at foster homes as to whether or not they refuse others, tolerate others, or want to be around others. We try to adopt the loner cats to the people who only want one cat when we can. Others are just social and they want the companionship.

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