Sorry troubled but I still just don't know. There is something about you I just can't put my finger on. I thought you were really focused but then I went back and read all of your posts and I don't know anymore.
Malawi, manditory jail and all the other neutrality issues are tied into the UN thing because the GB was knowingly practicing non-neutrality (a disassociation offence) by supporting the UN charter from 1992 to 2001. Yet you don't think so??? You see, that sends a signal to my head that something isn't right.
Sorry - What can I say. I have to be honest. You were the one that has said you were leaving this board only to return a couple of times - like maybe you are telling the truth but I feel uncomfortable with your posts. Your leaving/not leaving - then UN not a big deal - then Criteria was different and now UN is not the same as the neutrality issue - sorry.
One thing - If your husband is that ill and thus you dont want to tell him now because it may throw him for a loop, why then would you coldcock him later just before you send the letter? Won't you really throw him for a loop then too? Should you not be careful - maybe let your friend write the letter?
Sorry Troubled but I just don't know and I guess your patience with me will have to stay extremely low.
hawk