Hi, First Post

by AuroraB 36 Replies latest jw friends

  • jwfacts
    jwfacts

    Hi, great to have you join.

    I was very scared of not being able to make friends after leaving, but have been surprised how easy it is to make friends. It takes a while to know what to talk about, until you get similar interests (being a JW so much of what you talk about is like a foreign language to 'worldly people.') I go out for drinks with guys from work every week, and my wife has a lot of friends that she invites over for barbeques regularly. It just seems to grow from there; each new friend introduces us to another new one. Some come and go, but ever now and then I meet someone I really click with that will be friends for life. It is actually easier to meet people when you are not a JW, as there is no restrictions on who you may or may not speak to.

  • freedomfighter
    freedomfighter

    Good for you!

    Another escapee from the WTS.

    This is the beginning of your new life. Embrace it, live it. Try new things.

    You WILL make good friends on your way.

    Cheers to Freedom!

    FF

  • digderidoo
    digderidoo

    Hello and welcome to the board.

    Paul

  • delilah
    delilah

    Welcome AuroraB....this is the beginning of your new and improved life...it will be a bit scary at first, but it gets so much better.

  • AuroraB
    AuroraB

    Wow...so encouraging. Thank you all for the support! Volunteering is a good suggestion. I'll have to see what's out there. Anyway, lunchtime is almost here, so I've got to wrap up what I'm doing and get moving. Talk to you all later!

  • JK666
    JK666

    AuroraB,

    Welcome to JWD!

    JK

  • babygirl75
    babygirl75

    WELCOME TO THE BOARD.....

    babygirl...

  • TooBad TooSad
    TooBad TooSad

    Welcome aboard !!!!!!!!!!!! We know what your feeling.

    TooBad TooSad

  • sweet pea
    sweet pea

    Welcome, great to have you here.

    You will survive and you will make new friends in time. It may take a while to find ones you really click with or you may find them very quickly. All friendships take time though and there is no short cut but as others have said there is so much more choice outside of JW Land and people will appreciate you for who you are and not just because you believe exactly the same as you do. Unconditional friendship-so refreshing and liberating.

    Wishing you all the very best. Look forward to hearing more from you.

    Sam

    PS If you're anyway near Southern California or London, I'll be your friend.....

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    Welcome to the forum.

    I worried too. I really now only have one pretty good friend, but lots of fun with the work folks. It takes awhile when you have avoided anyone "worldly" for so long. I had to get over the trust issues. I was really afraid of anyone not from the KHall. That does take awhile to get over.

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