LouBelle (my response to your second post to me)
Of course now the boys are saying they didn't piss in the food, now that it has gotten international attention, there is always a lot of spinning.
Here's a point I think you are missing, I am not putting ANYONE on a pedestal, there are crimes that the black natives do, just like there are crimes that white settlers do, indians and colored, there is no one better or worse in that regard, because your country is in a terrible state right now. Again, not surprised by it whatsoever.
You have to know that I am laughing about Indian collegues "still" referring to my comments at all. So what? I mean, I wrote my opinion, I haven't even read this thread till today because I happen to be off from work, so anyone that is "still" focusing on a silly topic on a forum needs to either get a life or focus on the bigger picture because this is not it. Now, again, let's not make this more than what it is, I responded to you because you wrote like your experiences were the only valid explanations and thoughts on what is going on. It really read like you were demonzing the black natives of the country and I notice that even now, when other parts of the system are criticized, you always always always fall back on the "blacks" and what they have done wrong. Well you know what, until you get out of that ideology in your responses, there will not be any healing even in you. If you don't want to be attacked racially, why do it to others? Isn't that the reason why there is such disenfranchisement in South Africa anyway? I mean again, if you are unable to look at the bigger picture, you are lost. And honestly I do believe a lot of South Africans are lost because they have been so contaminated in their thought processes by the Apartheid rule, that even trying to have a fair and balanced view of healing is corrupt.
Well, yes I do believe a drop in the bucket is better than nothing at all. And while Oprah is not going to solve all of your issues, it is a start for all those girls that would otherwise be without. So now I would like to read the school that you started and all the millions you gave to help "your own". And let's be very honest, South Africans do not help their own or else we wouldn't be having this discussion, now would we? The help is either corrupted by greed, hate, bigotry and the vast number of those that fall through the cracks are without and sadly that is by far the indigeneous native blacks that are still without, still struggling, and everything else. Now if I am reading you wrong, correct me, but it seems to read like you are blaming all of these native blacks poverty on themselves, which honestly prompted me to respond to you in the first place. Instead of focusing on the horrible system of white supremacy that placed them in the position to begin with, you paint a grossly savage picture.
Otherwise, let's just agree to disagree on a few subjects. Overall I understand that you love your country and you want healing to take place, I think your country is beautiful as well and I would like to see all those people there getting along without such racial discord. Peace.