Do the right thing

by coolhandluke 25 Replies latest jw friends

  • coolhandluke
    coolhandluke

    thanks for the comments everybody. they cheered me up. :)

    journey:

    the reason and season thing is appropriate. i guess what i learned is that i define how i am treated for better or worse it comes down to me.

    missing Link:

    i feel you. it is my escapism too

    sixy:

    believe me, when i was cutting the tomatoes the thought of how sharp the knife was had me thinking...

    nina:

    as always you know how to cheer a guy up with a violent reference

    DJK:

    yeah. it was confusing. i really don't get it. i guess its not to understand but to accept and grow from

    joanna:

    word. couldn't have said it better

    nellie:

    you gave me a ton to think about. thank you

  • Barbie Doll
    Barbie Doll
    your past experiences with her and her self-centeredness, but in this particular instance chalk it up to being a nice guy. No one's forcing you to turn this one incident into a relationship. You don't have to invite her over again. Rhe next time you see her just say, "Hey, feeling better? Good - enjoy your night." And don't invite her into your world

    I think you are a real nice guy, for doing this.

  • dawg
    dawg

    Luke, you know you're my online bro... but piss on that nice guys crap. You know what the end result would have been had she ventured to the Huff house. You were both adults, she knew what she was doing, you could have still kept your distance. And she was hot? I always laugh when women say.. you're such a nice guy, when what they usually want is to be ravaged severely. Sure, they'll be those after I post this, calling me an ass, but all of you can hold your thoughts,I'm a UGA grad and have seen the movie that Luke described played out many times... women know why they're there, they know what they want. Its not ungentlemanly to give it to them... Rhett Butler snatched Scarlet up those stairs and look how happy she was the next morning! Was he not a gentleman for giving her what she wanted? I used to let my crazy JW conscience take control many years ago, but nothing wrong with a little gratuitous loud crazy monkey sex once in a while.

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    I think you were very nice, but I would of just gave her a ride home (her home). Now she's going to think you're her new best friend. Of course unless there is interest...after the movie.

    Hope4Others

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    Dawg - you are synonymous in my mind with two things now:

    magic brownies and monkey sex. Now stop misleading our impressionable youngsters -

    That's my job.

  • Barbie Doll
    Barbie Doll
    I post this, calling me an ass,

    You said it not me. lol lol lol

  • Tired of the Hypocrisy
    Tired of the Hypocrisy

    She sounds very self-centered to me. Probably assumes that you "WANT" her and that she can use you. I know how it goes, my sissy - in - law did that to guys forever. I feel that you did the right thing morally by not letting her go home with a potential guy that could have done more than rape her. I also feel that not letting her drive was good, and offering her a safe place to sleep it off was commendable. My advice to you, if you would like to hear it is to drop her. If you give her too much attention and time she will eventually feel entitiled to taking you for a ride that could hurt you financially and emotionally.

    Run away

  • ninja
    ninja

    I didn't know you'd been to a texas apostafest feef.....never mind the holdem part

  • beksbks
    beksbks

    Luke, my two cents.

    None of the wasted goodness and salmon will mean anything, when those few people who get it, respond with true appreciation.

    Although talking through the movie, might have put her life in serious danger if she were on my couch. I am dying to see that one!

  • ninja
    ninja

    hey I'm scottish....even if she opened my fridge....she would be cold product

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