No seriously I have done it in the flat at the back of a KH. The person involved is now married to someone else and actually still goes to that hall....wonder if they ever think of what we did there? I laugh everytime I think about it.
do you know anyone that did "it "before the wedding in the kingdom hall ?
by looloo 32 Replies latest watchtower scandals
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shopaholic
I know a number of couples that did the deed before they got married. The wedding would be on a saturday and then about a month later the couple is publicly reproved (and sometimes a few folks in the wedding party who knew but didn't say anything).
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looloo
lol that one sounds familiar
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Layla33
Yes, I know of more than a few. One was the son of a PO, and somehow it was hushed up.
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nomoreguilt
Yup! A friend of ours daughter and her fiance evidently (obviously) did it before the wedding. What transpird was this. The mother held a huge bridal shower for her daughter. There were loads of the faithful friends of the mother there, even though the daughter was not that well liked. The gifts were in abundance as the girl had been registered at a couple of upscale stores.
Well, about 3 months after the nuptials, this girl was showing QUITE profusely. Turns out the mother KNEW about the pregnancy before the SHOWER!!! The young couple were both df'd and the mother lost all of her faithful friends because she had duped and decieved them into this farce of a shower.
I can't recall if the mother was disciplined for her duplicity in the cover up.
NMG
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sass_my_frass
Well I hadn't thought about that; that's interesting. All my JW were always pressured into having their wedding at the kingdom hall. The last JW wedding I went to, I remember the couple talking about that conversation with the elders. Having the wedding in the KH brings praise to Jehovah, you see, but they hated their hall and wanted to have the wedding in a garden. (At least, that's what they said). Either the elders wanted them to ask if they could use it, so that they could wield their authority by demanding to know any reasons why they shouldn't be able to; or my friends were well and truly intimate and made up that little story.
*Mentally checks off a great long list of married JW ex-friends*
Yeah, I'd say a lot. Ironically, none of them consider me worthy of their company any more.
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anonochan
They asked us.... and we LIED THROUGH OUR TEETH!!! We were not about to have to change our plans (that took 11 months and $12,000 to plan fully) just because some nosy prick wants to know something thats none of his business.
Also, they did make us have pre-marital meetings with an elder, once separately and two times together wherein he did tell my husband that he was not allowed to orally pleasure me because it was nasty and that he was not to allow me to orally pleasure him "even if the temptation was great" LOL!!!
This particular elder then went on to tell my husband that it was ok to "beat it up, and make her raw" though. Meaning that rough sex was ok, just not fellatio!
My husband was pretty disgusted when he left that meeting, and it wasnt too long after that he started having some doubts. To this day i often wonder what else was said in that meeting because he wont tell me all of it to this day.
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cognac
I did.
Oh, and I was the daughter of a PO.
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Quirky1
Orally, Orally, Orally.
Whoooeeeeeahhhh!
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PaulJ
me. Not actually 'in' the hall though.... i figure you didn't actually mean that...