JF, I'm sorry you didn't feel welcome. This place is sooo huge, and so many new ones everyday, it's hard to get to know people.
I thought it was an amazing coindence that you and bite me are in the same library, and was kinda excited to see how the whole thing would evolve. (like it is true? will they know each other? like each other? or is it going to big April's Fool's joke.
Oh well....
I've been here for 5 years and have met hundreds of people, because I traveled ....sometimes 100's of miles to meet them. Or they came to meet me. Never been disapointed...except when it was time to depart and go back to our lives. But even then I was left with wonderful memories and some great pictures....and many new friends.
I wish you all the best, come back when you're ready.
lisa