Excellent post.
Even the most fiercely loyal are saying "no" to much of what is asked of them and picking and choosing which of the burdensome rules they will follow.
When they miss a meeting or skip field service they reason that they're in it for the long haul, so it's no big deal.
Many working on Kingdom Hall construction would quietly remark that it was better then going out in service.
Service for most involves knocking on a few doors, hoping that no one is home, going for coffee, driving around doing a few return visits, hoping that they're not at home either.
You can't sustain a sense of urgency for a lifetime.
It's burnout on a very deep psychological level.
Never has the apathy been so strong.
There's little point in arguing about failed prophecies or flip-flops in doctrine with most of them.
They just couldn't care less.