That stupid sign on the aircraft carrier was not the Administration's idea.
No - they just made use of it. Poorly, in hindsight. ;-) Gotta love politics, if at least for comedic purposes.
On engaging: of course, BTS, I must disagree. Without engaging an enemy politically, the only other course of action is to engage them militarily (I leave out the "do nothing" alternative). Whether with preconditions or without, you are at least engaging politically - perhaps for purposes of sound-bytes, Bush makes no distinction between engaging, engaging with preconditions, engaging with chaperones, engaging with jewelry, using his engaging smile, etc. There are all kinds of nudge-wink engagements going on, using go-betweens, between the worst of enemies; it serves only a superficial purpose to grandstand like this.
The ultimate goal is peace, yes? Peace will come about with the annhilation of one side (hmm...when has that worked out?), or negotiation, conciliation and compromise. It is the way of the world.
To think we should not compromise is just counter to reality, and suggests a deep-seated resistance to adulthood.