An elder here has molested and messed up the lives of many young girls during his eldership.
And of course we mustn't forget the local regular pioneer MS who was also the town flasher.
Did you have any ''dirty creepy old men'' in your congro?
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hotchocolate
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crazyblondeb
I can think of 3 that were in the moberly mo congregation, 2 of which, have moved onto other congregations!!
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White Dove
Bob Wxxxxxxx. 'Nuf said. EW!!!
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bluesbreaker59
1 in my congo, and he was fairly inactive. He got busted for child porn at his house on his computer. He was also caught naked with a young man that was dating someone from the congregation. It totally grossed me out hearing that one. My dad and grandpa were on his committee, and they told him as long as he stayed away from the congregation nothing would be done. There were warnings given to parents privately about him.
However, the most UNTHINKABLE, was one in a congregation where I knew some people. An older, quiet, reserved sort of elder, and a married man. He apparently had been molesting his wife's mentally handicapped sister for over 40 years!!! I was completely shocked by it. He also enjoyed have young teen girls stay over at their home, but all the girls I talked to said he never touched them. In fact, he never touched them AT ALL, which was equally creepy, because I always wondered if he was one of those "Norman Bates" types that had a peep hole in a wall. He was DF'd
There was one good man, that was falsely accused by his wife, and got her own daughter to lie for her, of him molesting the daughter, he was DF'd. He decided not to show up for his committee so they DF'd him in abstentia, dad said it was one of the hardest things he ever had to do. The wife wanted out of the marriage, because she had found another man she wanted to be with, and married him, then left him for another man and was DF'd. Later it came out from the daughter, that she was never abused. Of course, the man wasn't reinstated, because he didn't deny the charges, and wasn't around.
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logic&reason
Every hall I have been to has had some "creepy" element. Young, old, male, female, all kinds.
The JW culture is a magnet for creepiness.
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Country Girl
They weren't elders but three creepy, gross, boys in our congregation who would just LEER at all the sisters and look like a wolf about to eat its prey. It was horrifying. Sex-starved nasty teenagers that made all of us feel like lunch.
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bluesbreaker59
I know when I was younger (teenager) though, I stared a good deal at the younger (teen girls), and yes at their chests and butts, but also alot at their eyes and smiles, I love dimples. But hey they stared at our butts, chests, eyes, and packages, so all was fair. As I got older I didn't stare at the younger "sisters", I always stared at my own age bracket, but by the time I was 25 and divorced, everyone else my age was married with kids, so I could look but not touch. I would never leer so much that it would cause a female to feel uncomfortable though or like a piece of meat.
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r.a.m.
Snakes...I thought "Brother Mickey Mouse" and his wife had two daughters that are grown and not witnesses anymore?
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Amy10606
I have come across several creeps.
1.Sxxxxxxxx... He had a love for giving extra long hugs, the side hug, so he could squeeze your sholders in and make a good cleavage. He was an elder and in one of my elders meeting. It was very creepy, the other two elders were more interested in if I felt guilty or not and he wanted to know details about my sexual experiences, the elder in charge of the meeting had to keep telling him to stop. I can not they even let him on a commity like that. I some how escaped getting df'd a few times, not because of feeling guilty, but I am really good a crying on que.
2.Ranken... Converted from a prison, released and baptized, pioneer, molested a young boy. He served 2 years, and a few years later did it agian. They DF'd him the second time.
3.in the cong I attended in my latter teens, several men were baptized from the local prison. Two of them married single sisters from the hall, both had kids at home. One turned out to be okay(in there for money issues) but the other(convicted rapist) raped his young step daughter. So sad. My little sister is friends with the younger sister of the one that got raped. I am thankful that my mom was really strict about going over to peoples houses unless the mom was there.
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StAnn
We had one, Howard D.... Ugh. His wife accused him of sexually molesting their daughter, took the kids and left him. The elders DF'd the wife for telling everybody what had happened. The man remarried another woman and they had a daughter together. They moved to Florida. Years later, Children's Services took the girl from their home because he'd been molesting her for years. His wife divorced him and he's in prison. The daughter from the first marriage is still a total wreck from the experiences with her dad. I used to spend the night at his house with one of his girls, when he was still married to the first wife. Freaks me out to think what may have been going on in the next room.
BTW, this man couldn't run to the elders fast enough to tell them he saw his ex-brother-in-law smoking cigarettes, to get him DF'd so he couldn't talk to people about what had happened.