My Experiences= Trust NO ONE if you don't want to die or be molested.

by Witness 007 11 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • Witness 007
    Witness 007

    {Iam not comfortable sharing experiences here YET but here's some personal demons}

    As a kid my parents divorced so my mum moved with her two kids from a nice leafy family suburb, to a government housing estate...or HELL as I remember it! One day at our train station a man followed me in to the toilet. I locked my cubicle and peed {shy}, meanwhile I saw a hand on the ground in the cubicle next to me....he was looking or trying to get under!....I quickly finished and just then the bell rang as the train was going to pull in. The hand disapeared. I heard him run out. I ran outside and saw a man running to the very front carriage and jumping on...my Mother yelled at me to hurry up and get on. {Carriages are not connected in Australia} As a kid I thought nothing of it, later I realize this could have been bad. Another time at the beach in the change room with my Witness friend a man spoke to us and later, showed his penis braging how big it was. We laught {dumb kid} and got out of there. Another time in my bad neighbourhood, I went to buy some bread and milk since we had no car. On the way home 2 teenagers told me to come with them in the bushes as they wanted to show me something cool....now alittle street smarter, I refused to go with them kept walking, and said I have to go home....they beat me up and I collapsed on the ground pretending to be seriously wounded...they ran away. Once coming home from the Damn late {10pm} Service Meeting, me mum and other sibling were aproached by our local roving gang of youths sitting on or letterboxs, they asked for money. These guys had bashed the local security services who now refused to enter our area. Police took 2 hours in our niegbourhood. My mother told us to go unstairs she said:"NO I DON"T!" And reached quickly into her bag, they pulled back..she just had her keys and rushed up stairs and let us all in. {Poor mum} Another time at 12am some boys were pounding on our door with their shoulders, trying to break in. My mother said: "I've gotta Knife and I'll kill the first person who comes in!"...Queit, then whispers....they left....sometimes when we were at the meeting the locks did give way but we had nothing to steal...it's hard to sleep with broken locks, my mother stood guard with me..I feel so sad telling you these horror stories that's enough for now...As on my thread regarding the Tennasee Witness family who were murdered by a gang of youths they Witnesses to...my point is, do not trust anyone. Many serial killers in America look like sweet people {Ted Bundy, Jeffery Damer} but you really don't know who want's to harm you...especially women, be careful! If alone, or you think someone is following you {as I did} by very careful....Yes, "don't talk to strangers" is still good advice {sometimes use judgement} sad but true...many people who stopped to talk to a stranger are now buried in a shallow grave....with thier poster on a wall at the post office....don't be stupid. I could have died many times {more stories} but some how we have always been lucky. I always look over my shoulder when walking at night even though Iam 6 foot tall and stocky..."should I walk next to the park?...no, I take the long way home"...it's funny most people won't make eye contact with me, and get out of my way....one woman I was walking behind kept looking behind her, so I felt bad and crossed the street...I respected her wisdom...watch your back, always.

  • shamus100
    shamus100

    Good god, I've never heard such terrible things happening to someone.

    Did you live in a rough neighbourhood?

  • orbison11
    orbison11

    yes!!!!

    always be aware of your environment,,i have experienced some, but not near like you

    glad to hear you made it out ok

    orb

  • Witness 007
    Witness 007

    Yeah "Shamus100" government housing for all those on welfare or divorced mothers needing a home.. In the 1980's, poor people stacked in twenty story small apartments. Wen't there last month 2008 and they were tearing them down! Brought a tear to my eye...thank you government!

    One time our nieghbours boyfriend knocked on our door as she was having coffee with my mother {Witnessing!} the niegbour went out reluctantly to talk to him and he beat her in the hall so bad, and for along time..my mum yelled at him but couldn't go outside, she called the police repeatedly but they didn't arrive for 2 hours...just to take statements.....a favored pass time for gangs {knowing we had no dad in the house} was to smash our second story windows with footballs which they did many times...then they would come up and ask "for the ball back" what could a woman do?...my mother wanted to chop it to peices...instead she handed it back each time to them for next time. The government got sick of paying so began putting in shatter proof glass...the noise would still scare you when the ball smashed into the shatterproof plexi-glass in the kitchen or bedrooms....call the cops?....yeah right, did...not a high priority for them.

    Divorce sucks, till I was 5 I lived in the suburbs....mum dad, nice house, quiet street...kids playing! From 5 to 12 lived in this hell hole...felt very helpless as a kid. Moved to a country town when assets were FINALY split after years...my dad stayed in his comfortable house. FUNNY STORY- 10 years later, another city, we live in a nice area and come home from the service meeting...someone opens our front door before I COULD LOCK IT!....ALL THREE OF US SCREAM AND DIVE on that door like our lives depended on it pushing the door closed and holding it....from the other side the sheepish brother who dropped us off said: ....Um....Sorry... you forgot your Meeting bag..." He must have thought we were nuts! Funny but sad.

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    Wow, you have been through some scary days, your mom was very brave. I always trust my gut. I work nights I do always look around when going

    to my vehicle. I've seen drug deals going down in the alleys I don't take chances. You just never know. I keep a bat in the bedroom...lol I'm scared of guns or

    I might have one. Made the husband bury his in the cement when we got married i was so terrified. Perhaps because I've had one pointed at my head...years ago.

    cheers

    h4o

  • Witness 007
  • shamus100
    shamus100

    Well, come move here.

    We need skilled workers and not-so skilled workers.

    Sounds like an awful place! I mean, the crime, not your country.

  • LunaFing
    LunaFing

    I have never lived in a bad area as you have, but nonetheless I agree with you: Trust no one. I am somewhat paranoid. I don't like going into gas station mini marts because they are always getting robbed. My friend was at one getting a money order to pay rent when a guy came in and pulled a gun on her and took her money. I can't imagine what that must have felt. I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I'm sure it's made you a stronger person.

  • Witness 007
    Witness 007

    This was a bad area in the centre of the city which is now demolished...otherwise everyother place I have lived in was fine, Australia is a great place to live...no guns.

  • VoidEater
    VoidEater

    I thought I had difficult time...at least my difficulties were surrounded by times of relative comfort...

    My heart reaches out to you...

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