Hi Cognac,
I'm glad you're doing better. This is actually something I'm going through now too, Parents aren't speaking to me. Even though it's only been a week (this time), they've gone for several months at a time without speaking to me before, mostly because of my not attending meetings. I've had the same experience, and while it's sad that I feel less stressed and worn out when I don't talk to them, I know that the relationship is toxic to me. Some people are just bad for us, even though we may love them. Just be you, and live a happy life. It's their loss and I hope they realize what they're missing out on and stop being so petty.
-SFF