What would you do if you knew... (page 5)

Finally-Free

reporting children playing on a lawn they shouldn't step on?

Nah, just put out bear traps.

W

For once, I agree with John Doe.

The only thing is you must have good proof and rule out other possibilities.

2nd thing is--how do you know this? Are these 2 coworkers careless in covering up things, or are they blatant?

I would confront the 2 parties directly and get their side of the story, but don't necessarily believe it, just get a good feel of the situation.

There are more than just these 2 people involved, there is also an innocent wife and children too.

If you could do this anonymously then even the better.

stillajwexelder

"Do unto others what you would have them do to you" - if it were ME I would WANT to know....so if it were another man...I would tell him

I agree with Sirona

ninja

I would blackmail him for his playstation 3.....if he didn't have a playstation 3.....I would ask for his nintendo wii.......if he only had a gamecube.......he would be toast......merceninja.......(disclaimer......ninja likes all computer consoles....yes even a commodore 64!!)......only thing I don't like?......nvr....he he....ninjas inevitable monthly dig at nvr

nomoreguilt

My wife and I are in that very same position. The assistant store manager when she first Hired in 2 years ago. He seemed like a nice guy. He had been married before and got divorced from his first wife for having an affair with one of his cashiers. He married this girl, really sweet, OH and she was raised a JW! She said that she was never baptised, I asked her when I found out her past. Anyways, my wife is like the mom of the store. Anybody can take their problems to her and she will give sound advice.

So, this asst store mgr. goes to her and tells her that he has chemistry for one of the cashiers. Here we go again. Of course my wife tells him to be careful and to think about what he has with his wife. basically, she said to KEEP OUT! Well, guess what happens...YUP, he took the big dive. Did the dirty deed and to top it off, come to find out one of his sub dept mgrs was also dipping this cashier. Oh, she happened to married also.

Anyways, the asst store mgr got found out by CORP. , the cashier narked on him and he got FIRED!! His wife never found out the real reason he got fired, he told her it was for fraternizing with employees at a wedding.

So, here is my wife and I. We get together with them on occasion and we are NOT going to say anything to her. NONE of OUR business. I do not wantto be the one to break this poor girls heart. She's only 27 and he's in his 40's with a teenage daughter. Yes. I would like to tell her annonymously, leave her a note on her car, but I can't. I am not a mean person. BUT! If it were being done to me, the cheating on, I would like to know myself.

NMG

cognizant dissident

I would confront the 2 parties directly and get their side of the story, but don't necessarily believe it, just get a good feel of the situation.

There are more than just these 2 people involved, there is also an innocent wife and children too.

If you could do this anonymously then even the better.

And they would be perfectly within their rights to tell you to mind your own God damn business as their sex life is surely none of yours, just as yours is none of theirs!

John Doe

Seems like a lot of people are basing what they would do on wanting to know or not wanting to know themselves. That's a good point. One good approach might be to ask the woman, assuming she's your friend, in a hypothetical way if she would want to know if her man was cheating. Her answer would then be your answer.

Junction-Guy

Gee just a little bit touchy Cog, did I hit a sore spot ?

digderidoo

Nomoreguilt, you are in a very different position in that you know the couple. You socialise with them, so it makes you awkward for you. Whereas the poster of this thread hardly knows the wife, has only seen her a couple of times dropping the kid off to school. I would say your position puts you in a predicament, whereas the posters predicament is only based upon her own feelings on the matter.

Paul

ldrnomo

Tell him that he needs to talk to his wife. There are usually reasons one has an affair with someone else and the two of them need to start comunicating about what's going on in their marriage.

LD

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