Look! It gets even better! From the appendix, direct instructions on how a bride and groom should open their wedding gifts:
"....should the newlyweds identify to all the giver of each gift? Christians from Macedonia
and Achaia made contributions to brothers in Jerusalem, but there is no indication
that their names were publicized. (
Romans 15:26 ) Many Christians who give a
wedding present would want to remain anonymous rather than attract undue
attention to themselves. In this regard, review Jesus' counsel found at
Matthew
6:1-4
.
16 Identifying the givers of gifts could lead to "stirring up competition" as to which is
the better or the more costly gift. Thus, wise Christian newlyweds will refrain from
publicly announcing the names of gift givers...."
For pity's sake! Many people open a gift, hold it up for everyone to see, and then say "thank you" to the person who gave it to them. Guess that's out now. It has to be a big secret. They even discussed the volume of music played at the reception because it might interfere with this opportunity for good christian fellowship and conversation.
Talk about control, this is absolutely insane.
StAnn