A few threads I have made about certian books
Toxic Parents Toxic Religion 1 http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/59414/1.ashxhttp://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/59448/1.ashxhttp://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/59888/1.ashxhttp://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/59937/1.ashxhttp://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/60068/1.ashxhttp://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/60069/1.ashx
Toxic Parents Toxic Religion 2
The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse - Part 1
The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse - Part 2
The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse - Part 3
The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse - Part 4
and the discussion on this book that resulted in another series Take Back Your Life: Recovering from Cults and Abusive Relationships
would highly recommend any or all of them