Move on.
I know someone like that. Frustrating as hell.
momz
What do you think of people playing hard to get?
by asilentone 35 Replies latest social relationships
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free2think
Im sorry, that sucks.
Maybe she's confused about what she wants?
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Finally-Free
Forget her and find yourself a couple of hotties.
W
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Dorktacular
Men, women who play the "Hard-To-Get" mindgame are sadists and should be avoided at all costs. This is just the first installment of the never-ending series of mindgames they will subject you to, ultimately ending in one collossal mindfuck that leaves you single and in therapy. Run.
Women, if you're playing the "Hard-To-Get" game, be careful you don't play that role too well. Your youthful assets have a shelf life. If you mess around too long, you'll be playing "Can't-Give-It-Away" instead of "Hard-To-Get".
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Jim_TX
Back when I was a JW - and trying to date... it was very frustrating. I was awkward, as it was, and then to get these gals who would play the 'I just want to be friends' game... oi-vei.
After I got divorced, I started meeting gals again. Non-JW ones this time. Most that I met were very nice. One though... was... well... odd.
I think that perhaps she was trying to be 'careful'. We met for lunch one day, all I knew was her online 'name' or handle. She refused to tell me her real name. (Red Flag #1.) I laughed it off, and continued with the lunch - trying to be social and get to know her. Nice gal. Well... after that lunch, I decided to not pursue.
A few weeks later, I got an e-mail from her. 'Want to meet for lunch?' Sure, why not. So we again meet and talk. Nice gal. But she still wouldn't give me her real name. (Red Flag #2) I decided that if she was that paranoid about letting out even her first name... she wasn't worth my efforts to try to get to know her.
I never contacted this gal after the last meeting. I hope she is doing well.
Gals... I know that you may have had poor experiences with dating in the past... but... if you're gonna play hard to get... you just may never be 'got'.
Regards,
Jim TX
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White Dove
"The chase is fun" ???
When I act not interested or say no by my body language or straight out 'NO,' I really mean it.
No means NO.
NO games.
NO misunderstandings.
Clear as glass.
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White Dove
Momz,
I read that book, too! "Maybe He isn't into You."
I spotted some weird stuff in it, but over all, it's about taking the person at their word/body language.
LouBelle,
I, too, am in that pimping myself out phase or whatever it is, but not for real love.
I want friends with benefits.
I did it with two people once each over the span of two years (not a whore!) and found that I prefer to do it with my friends than with people who I don't know, love, or even like.
Please don't get hurt. Sex doesn't bring love.
I haven't found love. I gave up on it, and that's why I prefer FWB because at least I love them as friends and trust them to not hurt me.
I don't have a FWB yet, but I'm working on it.
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av8orntexas
It was ok at first, sister plays coy and all, but as I got older, I found it to be a bunch of BS, and I don't appreciate it. I tell you what I think, and I want to know where I stand. I found some JW's to be into games,BS, and the like.
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Thechickennest
Its time to move on, or its time to give in.
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beksbks
That goes both ways Dork