The Long Road To Forgiveness

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  • BurnTheShips
    BurnTheShips

    So many of us have suffered so much here in our experience with the Watchtower cult and at the hands of others. This afternoon's segment of NPR's This I Believe reminds us of the liberating power of forgiveness. I heard it on the drive home and wanted to share it here with you. Listen to the audio at the link if you can, the text does not do justice to her spoken words. BTS

    http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=91964687

    The Long Road To Forgiveness

    by Kim Phuc

    Famous AP photo of Kim Phuc

    All Things Considered, June 30, 2008 · On June 8, 1972, I ran out from Cao Dai temple in my village, Trang Bang, South Vietnam; I saw an airplane getting lower and then four bombs falling down. I saw fire everywhere around me. Then I saw the fire over my body, especially on my left arm. My clothes had been burned off by fire.

    I was 9 years old but I still remember my thoughts at that moment: I would be ugly and people would treat me in a different way. My picture was taken in that moment on Road No. 1 from Saigon to Phnom Penh. After a soldier gave me some drink and poured water over my body, I lost my consciousness.

    Several days after, I realized that I was in the hospital, where I spent 14 months and had 17 operations.

    It was a very difficult time for me when I went home from the hospital. Our house was destroyed; we lost everything and we just survived day by day.

    Although I suffered from pain, itching and headaches all the time, the long hospital stay made me dream to become a doctor. But my studies were cut short by the local government. They wanted me as a symbol of the state. I could not go to school anymore.

    The anger inside me was like a hatred as high as a mountain. I hated my life. I hated all people who were normal because I was not normal. I really wanted to die many times.

    I spent my daytime in the library to read a lot of religious books to find a purpose for my life. One of the books that I read was the Holy Bible.

    In Christmas 1982, I accepted Jesus Christ as my personal savior. It was an amazing turning point in my life. God helped me to learn to forgive — the most difficult of all lessons. It didn't happen in a day and it wasn't easy. But I finally got it.

    Forgiveness made me free from hatred. I still have many scars on my body and severe pain most days but my heart is cleansed.

    Napalm is very powerful but faith, forgiveness and love are much more powerful. We would not have war at all if everyone could learn how to live with true love, hope and forgiveness.

    If that little girl in the picture can do it, ask yourself: Can you?

    Contemporary Photo of Kim Phuc

    Kim Phuc is best known as the girl in the famous photo of a Vietnam War napalm-bombing attack near Saigon. She now lives in Toronto with her husband and two children. Her organization, Kim Foundation International, aids children who are war victims. Photo courtesy of the Canadian Broadcasting Corp.

    “Forgiveness made me free from hatred. I still have many scars on my body and severe pain most days but my heart is cleansed.”

  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga

    I have seen her interviewed before. This brings tears to my eyes. Thanks for posting this, Burn, and I am glad to see you.

    The forgiveness thing reminds me of something my beloved friend and mentor told me, "Hatred is like drinking poison and waiting for someone else to die."

    How true that is.

  • crazyblondeb
    crazyblondeb

    I just wanted to say thank for posting that, even though "I annoy the shit out of you"!!

  • oompa
    oompa

    Thanks....really...i did not know i had a few more tears left tonight!!.........oompa

  • zeroday
    zeroday

    I hear you brother...

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost

    An incredible story - thanks for reminding us.

    I think some of us, certainly Mrs Ozzie and i can, visualise the location where this took place. No matter the rights or wrongs, we can all give a moment in silence to remember those who suffered.

  • dinah
    dinah

    So the moral of the story is what we should all move to Canada and love Jesus?

    Sorry for being so cynical.

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    Quite a heartwrenching story Burn, what people face and must overcome in their hearts and minds is a

    reminder to all that somehow we must also work to forgive.

    Happy canada Day Kim!

    hope4others

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost

    dinah;

    Is there meant to be a 'moral'?

    We read, we learn, we resolve to act better.

    It's simple really.

    Burn has alerted us to 'man's inhumanity to man'.

    Cheers from downunder,

    Ozzie

  • dinah
    dinah

    Oh my DAMN

    Let me elaborate and tell you folks what is on my feeble mind.

    Oh and welcome back burns.

    Suddenly America is the hero in a war we LOST?? They pulled kids out of high school average age of death was 19. That's not old enough to know WTF!!!!

    Yes, I feel for that child that had napalm thrown on her. I COULD NEVER DO THAT to a snake much less a child. We killed countless children and we LOST?? No, those children had brothers and sisters and mothers and fathers and they HATE US.

    YES The Americam gov't could probably wipe the world clean.

    WHAT so you can have a bunch of men to get gay sex in toilets because they can't be open? I don't give a crap who they are screwing just so it ain't me.

    To quote the black man in the Three Stooges when the plumbing was all messed up: This world has sho gone crazy.

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