I had a childhood friend make me a necklace with an upside down cross that he drilled a hole through that traveling missionaries gave him. I loved that crazy thing. It was something from his heart. I wore it to my first apostatized fest, feeling some sort of bond from it. Anyhow, I have lost the cross with the fish off of it. Guess they will not give them wire to thread it on in the can, but even worse, I hear he got reinstated. WTF? I have spoke of him before and he is the one that went from JW to addict, to prison, and then a robber, white supremacist. Well now he is back in the JW's. A prisoner for life with a huge swastika and tats all over of melting flesh, and why a JW? I don't know.
I don't believe all the things he has done are good. who of us are, but to find he went back to the JW's...well it just broke my heart.
I do understand that if someone gives you something especially if hand made, food music or a token...cherish it. They are giving you a piece of themselves. Those things are the best to give and receive.