Yesidid - Like you, I feel no particular animosity toward any member of any faith or religion; I fully belive that each and every person must, and should be allowed to, find and follow his/her own path to the Ultimate.
As for myself, I believe that NO revealed religion has any monopoly on truth; in fact, I see ALL revealed religion as "getting it wrong" on nearly every fundamental question facing humanity. For example, to my mind, there is no revealed religion which accurately describes humanity's origins or any "purpose" that we might here on Earth. No religion can provide sufficient answers. I view all religions as man-made ideological constructs.
Having said that, I see little value in your "strawman" argument. There is absolutely no question that pedophile priests have caused tremendous harm to the Church, and especiallly to the victims - the children - whom they have harmed. To their shame, certain individuals within the Church have tried to cover things up. One long-standing method of operating has been simply to re-assign the "offending" priest in question to another parish. This has long been a tragic issue that too many within the Church hierarchy have chosen to ignore.
However, [and as a non-believing, "lapsed" Catholic], I believe that these individuals are a minority within the RCC. There are many fine people within the Church - both clergy and lay - who sincerely care about others and are tying to improve their respective communities. Moreover, this is the case in most churches, synagogues, mosques, and other places of worship.
Your argument is a "strawman" in that it takes a small, negative minority, and posits this group as representive of the much larger group. Pedophile priests are not representive of the RCC. And their presence within the Church no more alientates the Church from God than does the presence of pedophiles in any other religious or secular organization/institution. If one belives in God, then he/she may well also believe that a pedophile who does harm to children will alienate him/herself from God, and that this is also the case for those who cover up things for pedophiles or turn a blind eye upon becoming aware of such transgressions. However, there are many people within such organizations who look out for and protect the rights of children. If you believe in God, these people are serving to align the organization or institution with righteous ideals.
The same is true for any person in any group. If a Jehovah's Witness learns of such abuse and then comes forth to defend the best inerests of the child in question, then this Witness is acting in a righteous way. In short, a given group/collective/community should not be held responsible for sins/transgressions that most of its members are innocent and unaware of. Of course, once an individul does become aware, then it is his/her responsibility to act.a