Pick those you trust, send a pm, and take the plunge, Yknot.
That's it. AK-Jeff took a chance with me when I was still fairly new.
He agreed to meet with me, we shared phone numbers. After that,
I wasn't so new and continued to meet with JWD'ers and get and
give phone numbers. If that's too much for some, get an email
address and reach out to someone.
Regardless of what replaces JWD or what site becomes stronger
as JWD posters go over there, I may not make it there. I may be
content to start the process of moving on with a life outside of the
forum. But I will cultivate the great friendships I have started here.
Who better understands the problems that coming out of the Borg
involves than others who have done it? It's been a great aid to me.