How will YOU benefit by JWD closing?

by AK - Jeff 19 Replies latest jw experiences

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    I have been an ongoing advocate for finding a way to keep it alive and operating. My interest in so doing is an understanding of how positively this forum affected me when I was floundering with finding a life outside the organization. Still, reality tells me that keeping it as an operational forum is likely a loosing battle, and I am honestly becoming OK with that. Life changes. Life in the digital world changes even faster than in most venues, and this forum has lived and thrived for a long time in that environ.

    But, the reality is, that once I can no longer post here, I will find free time to do more important things in life. I have already discovered that once I knew it would close, I have begun to find worthwhile uses of my time offline. I was already beginning to 'fade' as an Xjw and headed toward being an ex-Xjw, which is the healthy end game I would like to achieve. In some ways, as positive as JWD was for me in the beginning, and until I healed to a large extent, it has become in some ways a drain on me now. I have become addicted, not to the content, for I have pretty well seen/heard/researched all that I want to regarding Jwism, but addicted instead to the act of 'checking the site' every day.

    When nothing new is being posted here, I will find no reason to check in daily. I may on occasion wish to use the information that exists here, if Simon ends up finding a way to archive the site for posterity. But my online and offline life will improve as I find different avenues in which to be educated online, and free time to take better care of matters outside cyberspace.

    We will miss this place, but this thread is about finding a positive way to look at the matter. So:

    How will this closing benefit YOU? No negatives please. Glass half full comments only.

    Jeff

  • daniel-p
    daniel-p

    I'll benefit by forcing myself to concentrate at work more. ;)

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    I will spend much time doing things that need to be done.
    I will also get together with people more face-to-face and get off of cyberland more.

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free

    I'll probably spend more time doing projects around the house, exercising, and being more productive at work.

    W

  • THE GLADIATOR
    THE GLADIATOR

    AK - Jeff

    As always a thoughtful and meaningful post. You are one of the few posters now left here who post topics worth reading.

    All good things come to an end. Life and death. This makes room for new growth and new beginnings. Time to spend on different pursuits. This board can become addictive and there is feeling that many posters have forgotten why they came here.

    It has served a purpose and many underestimate the privilege that it has been to espresso thoughts about their past and present on an international forum - free of charge.

    Salute Simon.

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    It will probably help keep me from getting fired.

    Also, it will help me keep from being unduly influenced by guys from Indiana and Illinois.

    om

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    I will be able to get a life

  • slimboyfat
    slimboyfat

    Why so pessimisitc? Simon says he is looking for a way to keep it open. It can be done. Don't worry.

    There is no positive to the forum closing - sorry. If people want to move on then they can do so individually without the whole site going down. On the other hand if the site closes, then many people who would still benefit will be disadvantaged. There is no two ways about it. This forum changes lives. That is not melodrama, that is fact.

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    Unfortunately, we only made it a few posts.

    This was not a lobby to keep it open - but an effort to find positives about it's closing. Geesh.

    Jeff

  • slimboyfat
    slimboyfat

    There is nothing positive about talking down the chances of the forum continuing, sorry. If you have been a behind the scenes advocate for the forum continuing then I thank you for that and urge you to continue. Threads such as this serve no useful purpose. People who want to "move on" are free to do so and in no way require the whole site to close in order for them to accomplish that.

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