Thought I'd properly introduce myself

ninja

and kidding....(still hiding)
DaCheech

wow, I've caught onto this thread late, but nonetheless worth reading!
what the elders were doing to you is similiar to what they've done to my family. On the contrary I've always showed them who's got the upper hand, and they don't bother me now!
but they do listen with "deaf" ears!
wish you the best, and unlike "reniaa" you see thru their smokescreen!
JW Walking Away

even though your avatar makes you look like a serial killer with that stare.....welcome mrs.....he he.....da ninja......(hiding)
Thanks......I think
FlyingHighNow

Important to note: Ninja has a bizarre sense of humor. He means nothing by it.