For me, it was the easiest one to miss. I reviewed my reasons for going regularly and they did not include love for Jeh. My reasons for going included only 2: I wanted to be seen by as many people as possible so as to have a great reputation in the congregation, and I wanted my kids to have a good foundation in the "truth."
Never once did I go because a sky daddy would be happy about it.
I got to thinking that God seemed too dependent on humans for his joy.
No one's going to have those family book studies except for the power mongers and weird PI's.