Yes, I agree that the men seem most spiritual and sincere. The people are clean, well groomed, well dressed, and pleasant looking. Obviously, this is the cream of WT crop.
Of course, the instructors and students are in air conditioned/heated buildings. Their rooms and food are supplied. There is no long commute to the classes. No one has to go home to cook dinner and bathe/diaper crying babies or pay bills.
They are completely surrounded by like-thinking people whose research has been done for them. Any research that you did on your "hot seat" assignment I am sure was completed in the WT facilities.
It all looks so appealing, so wonderful. As long as you don't search too much. As long as you don't ask the wrong questions. As long as you agree with everything you hear.
I bought it all for over thirty years. But when the rose-colored glasses come off.........