I think the WBTS is absolutely full of people that "go along to get along", and constantly compromise their integrity, and fail to take a stand for what they know deep down in the truth.
I think this is what is taught to the children and some continue it through generations and others refuse to continue the madness of it and leave.
Scarred, I know that is very true.
And it is also valid as a great lesson learned from the WT experience.
What is painful here is to see that the tradition of being a WT slave will continue with this person and be passed on to offspring that come along while this person lives a compromised life. The "lesson learned" has, sadly, not made life happier.
I think, as Jeff said earlier, we must look at ourselves and ask what human frailities we have that made us give up our lives for a lie?