...Behave Already!!..

by OUTLAW 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    Confession, I was shocked too...and pissed off. How dare this man behave this way here as my guest?!!!!! But it was for real, and his wife let me know he was mad too! Can you believe it?

    I couldn't figure it out because I was driving them everwhere (a woman in charge), but the rule was once out of the car, I needed to let him get to the door first and then he would let me unlock it. Of course I didn't play this game. In fact after I found out his attitude, I made sure to run to the front door.

    There were several jostling matches on our narrow side walk.

    r.

  • parakeet
    parakeet

    In the past I've tutored foreign grad students who needed help with their English. Almost without exception, during the time I spent with them, each one insulted Americans to my face. (Yes, Canadians, I know you're North "Americans," too.)

    I would then ask why they would even consider coming to the U.S. for their educations if Americans are so reprehensible. They would reply that they couldn't get good educations in their own country, or that the job markets in their own countries sucked, or that they had obtained some kind of scholarship to come here.

    I reminded them that it was rude to insult one's host country while enjoying its advantages. They were unmoved. I realized then that most of the world hates the U.S., although they're very happy to take advantage of our freedoms when it suits them.

    I've been in Europe several times, and I've taken great care to learn the social mores of my host countries so as not to insult anyone. It appears that feeling is not reciprocated when foreigners come here. During my grad years and up to the present day, I have yet to meet a Brit (in person) who wasn't a patronizing, "Queen's English" snob.

    I suppose it's the fashion nowadays to bash the U.S. And we take it like meek, guilt-ridden little lambs. I'm quite frankly sick of it.

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Restrangled..Wow!..You`ve been all over..The Japanese guy sounds like a pain in the ass..LOL!!..He`s the frigg`n guest!............Paris is full of dog poop?..yuk!..Johnny Depp lives in France..Now I know what he uses his snow thrower for!!..LOL!!..........................................................................................................................Parakeet..I`ve found the same thing with Germans Tourists visiting Canada..They always tell you how much better Germany is than Canada....."Well then get your German Ass,back to Germany!!"..LOL!!

    Laughing Mutley

  • rebel8
    rebel8

    When traveling...

    Someone apologized for not having ironed my sheets before putting them on the bed. I laughed b/c I thought it was a joke. It wasn't. awkward

    I ate a pastry off a napkin on my way to the bus. Everyone glared at me. Apparently only plates are acceptable, and no "to go" eating.

    As a New Yorker I have a really hard time visiting the South or anywhere where people are "friendly". I have been told many times that I'm rude, just because I get to the point and am not bubbly, not because I did or said anything rude.

    In the South I almost lost my freaking mind when a waitress would take 15 minutes to put a spoon on the table, just because she was standing there chatting with everyone, and a cashier had looooooooooooooonnnnnggg conversations with each person in line. I thought I'd have a heart attack. THAT is rude to me, very inconsiderate of my time.

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Rebal8........Where were you,where they ironed bed sheets?..LOL!!

    Laughing Mutley...OUTLAW

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    Rebel...your post had me cracking up!

    In the South I almost lost my freaking mind when a waitress would take 15 minutes to put a spoon on the table, just because she was standing there chatting with everyone, and a cashier had looooooooooooooonnnnnggg conversations with each person in line. I thought I'd have a heart attack. THAT is rude to me, very inconsiderate of my time.

    When we moved here to the deep south from Chicago, I use to get so pissed off....about wasted time in the grocery store as the check out girl would hold long conversations with each person checking out. The milk was getting warm, icecream was melting, meat was warming up....and my blood pressure was skyrocketing! I kept thinking I could scan that stuff about 5 times faster....DAMN IT...stop your yapping!

    Eventually, I either got use to it or they got faster...I don't know....but damn....I expect check out clerks to check out and fast!

    r.

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    2 more funny stories...or should I say embarrassing as a U.S. citizen:

    We were having lunch in Venice in an out door venue. The table next to us was full of big fat Americans and they were full of themselves....loud, obnoxious and demanding service....everyone around us were commenting on the "obnoxious americans".......it was horrible.

    The other horrible scenerio.....We were in a museum, looking at a famous art piece...2 American girls started making out in front of it with about 50 people standing behind them.....I have never been so disgusted, or embarrassed to be from the U.S.

    As stated by Outlaw....Behave already when you are in another country!!!!!!

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Restrangled..Your story reminds me of a trip I made to Jamacia..It was an all Dub Vacation.......The hotel gave us a few cases of rum to divided amongst our group.....The guy who was supposed to make sure it was divided evenly,kept most of of it for his stay(I found out later)..WTF??!!................There were orange trees at the hotel..We were invited to pick a fresh orange in the morning for breakfast..The same guy who kept most of the rum,stripped the trees of ripe oranges..He wanted the juice for his Rum!..LOL!!.......He was an elder..He was special..LOL!!............................................The locals had a scam going..They would tell you about a robbery that had happened at a local jewelery store..They would give you 2 gold bracelets for $100.00..They were actually brass bracelets purchased from the local drug store worth $3.00 a piece..LOL!!.......................................Our Rum stealing,Orange thieving Elder could`nt pass up a bargain like that..He bought 2 brass bracelets worth $6.00 for $100.00,thinking they were stolen..He was going to sell them for a small fortune when he got home!..LOL!!

    Laughing Mutley...OUTLAW

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    Outlaw,

    Your story reminded me of some very bad behavior by Jw's here in the States. I know this has been covered before here, but for anyone new:

    We use to stay in some pretty nice hotels during the assemblies through the years. Some people would load up their family members into the rooms. They would then leave Watchtowers and Awakes as tips, at the restaurants or for the maids at the end of the trip.

    Talk about rude and obnoxious....!!!!!

    r.

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Restrangled..JW`s can be outrageous.....The worst thing you can do is piss off restaurant staff and keep returning..They will do some pretty nasty things to your food,before you get it..Then laugh while you eat it!!..LOL!!.........

    Laughing Mutley...OUTLAW

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