Another way the WT can mainstream: DF'ing time limits

by JimmyPage 13 Replies latest jw friends

  • My Struggle
    My Struggle

    What I see are being a more realistic first step is for the Borg/BOE to stop imposing mandatory time limits on how long a person has to be D'fed before they can be reinstated. Depending on the sin it can be as short as six months, or as long as a few years; is is assuming that the D'fed person is repentant and the BOE don't need the D'fed person to meet any other requirement to be reinstated.

    I was disfellowshiped and after three months tey told me that there was noting that I could improve on, but I still had to wait a year before I could come back. This made no sense to me, but I trucked along anyway and reinstated one year to the day from when I was disfellowshiped. They did not even need to meet with me on that day, I just got a phone call and they said, ok it been a year you are now reinstated and it will be announced at the next service meeting.

    Doing away with this rule would be the first step.

  • tenyearsafter
    tenyearsafter

    Sammielee...I have been DF'ed for 14 years as well...and guess what, not one visit to bring me back in the fold!!

  • sammielee24
    sammielee24
    Sammielee...I have been DF'ed for 14 years as well...and guess what, not one visit to bring me back in the fold!!

    We are disfellowshipped but after being treated like lepers when playing WT rules of announcing our df'd status to others, we decided that we wouldn't play that way any longer. We moved and wanted to find out for ourselves, without the labels, what was going on inside the KH and so went to a meeting. We accepted a bible study and had the first meeting last week..spent 3 hours with them diving into the first trumpet blast and followed it up with the disfellowshipping issue. We are shunned by every single JW - got the letters telling us to stay away from them - never been contacted by any single JW and know that they could care less, so I wanted to see how the society was working on the issue now. Nothings changed.

    I found it so ridiculous however that if a disfellowshipped person tells another JW he is disfellowshipped, they put the mark of Satan on you and run the other way. They wouldn't go to your house for anything. Apparently, by avoiding the df'd person you remain clean....but now, they've been to our house and acted very appropriately JW like, sitting on our couch for 3 hours and they want to come back. It's an interesting excercise in mental and emotional stability when you realize that they are fine sitting across from us when they don't know...yet the moment we tell them we are df'd, they will run screaming out of the house for fear we've tainted them. Yet we are the same nice people they sat with before - all that's changed is their reaction to us. sammieswife.

  • isaacaustin
    isaacaustin

    The org will never mandate a max time for dfing. Dfing is used to break down the person and assure their loyalty to the org.

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