Hi jabberwock,
How do you understand some of the accounts that I mentioned in my original post?
OK, here goes!
The bible says "believe and be baptised". What do we need to believe and do?
Romans 10:9-11 (New International Version)
9 That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. 11 As the Scripture says, "Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame."
So what about infants, babies, the unborn, mentally retarded etc? Can they even think or say that?
Of course not, however there is some evidence that the infants of believers will be saved.
Look at David's illegitimate son for example.
2 Samuel 12:22-23 (New International Version)
22 He answered, "While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, 'Who knows? The LORD may be gracious to me and let the child live.' 23 But now that he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me."
Where would you say David is now? With God right? Verse 23 probably indicates that the child went to be with God also, ahead of David.
This verse is often quoted when dealing with the subject too.
Deuteronomy 1:39 (New International Version)
39 And the little ones that you said would be taken captive, your children who do not yet know good from bad—they will enter the land. I will give it to them and they will take possession of it.
What is the principle here? That the children who do not know good from bad will enter the promised land.
So what about those of unbelievers? We cannot be sure, only God has all the answers. However, I believe He is a just, merciful, loving and compassionate Father, not a tyrannous in-compassionate dictator. His heart is for mercy, not sacrifice, salvation, not damnation, justification not condemnation etc.
I leave it to God's judgement-He is more than capably and doesn't need my help!
All the best,
Stephen