I lurked for a little bit as an active dub. I already knew I was "on the way out" before I ever joined.
By the time of my first post, I had already resigned as an elder and started the fade. Reading and posting here encouraged me to stop going to meetings for other people. I was finally compelled to join and weigh in on the issue of Bethel layoffs a few years ago.
What I am saying is, welcome. And being here will help you. Welcome. Welcome.