BluesBrother, I watched this issue very closely when I was a teenaged JW, and again after I was divorced from my creep JW husband at the age of 30 (around 1980). I've mentioned this author before, but here we go again... William J. Whalen [Catholic layman] wrote a series of books on sects in America. His book, "Armageddon Around the Corner" was published in 1962. I picked it up and read it when I was about 9 - 10 years old, and found that many comments/criticisms he had about the JWs were dead on.
One criticism that CLEARLY stood out in my mind was Mr. Whalen's comment that the WTBTS was "anti-marriage". It fit exactly what I was seeing in the JW/WTBTS in the early '60's... Remember, this was obvious enough for a rather intelligent little 9-10-year-old-child to see...
Later on, after my divorce in the early 1980's, I clearly remember a talk being given at a KH I was visiting [looking for another JW mate...] about the WTBTS' idiotic idea that people - men - resurrected to life on Paradise Earth wouldn't marry. AT that time - in fact, per a previous post - there were AT LEAST 60 women per every 40 men in the JWs. I put the ratio much higher, at 90 WOMEN per every 10 MEN - at least, that's what it felt like at the time. This skewed ratio made many single male JWs act like the cock in the henhouse, btw.
Anyway, with such a limited male pool to draw from, I - as well as many other young, single JW women - were counting on the resurrection to provide decent mate material. However, the speaker that day [early 1980's] gave a talk that emphasized that the resurrected men weren't going to marry. He even emphasized that disparity in the number of women versus men in the [B]org, and stressed that many women wouldn't EVER be able to marry... I think he even brought up that case of enforced virginity by the daughter of the biblical character who was the first to run out to meet him after he won a battle due to Jah's 'assistance'...
Nasty, nasty speaker! He practically said "So there! All you silly women!" He was just smiling all over the place as he gave this talk. I was on the verge of tears - and I don't cry easily at all; stopped crying when I was 9 so as to not give my parents the satisfaction of making me cry when they hit/slapped/kicked me.
As I sat there fighting back the tears, I heard sniffling all around me, and looked around - all of the beautiful young women I'd seen upon entering the KH - I was 'marking' the competition, don't you know - were in tears. Must have been at least 15 - 20 women quietly sobbing with tears flowing down their faces.
Later, I realized just how STUPID the WTBTS was in preemptorily destroying the option of marrying a resurrected man for so many loyal JW women- I actually said, "If the WTBTS wanted to KEEP women in the religion, they would certainly do a better job of doing so by giving such women HOPE - instead of brutally and smugly DESTROYING any hope of finding a JW mate, even in the resurrection!"
As I said, this was in the early 1980's - I suspect the WTBTS hasn't changed their policy lately, either.
Zid