hamsterbait were is your proof that there is a time limit on refinement?
I feel for anyone who suffered by this mistake I too have had a miscarriage and so bonoafide agenda to use it as a stick to beat leadership with annoyed me but this aside, they have been refined to stepping back on it, they had been asked and got it wrong and so they have been refined I am glad for this as It means we do have hope for our unborn.
What would another christian faith say on this subject? would they say it had been chosen by God and became a spirit in heaven totally unbiblical but makes people feel good? I want real answers but I also want to see refinement if mistakes are made, I see this with Jws I do not see this with Christendom. They were wrong on this so they changed it it!
in answer to your question hamsterbait.....
1 Corinthians 11:3
Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
Acts 20:28
Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood.
We have a structured leadership. First God Jehovah, then Jesus, then overseers from among men, who have to account to God for their leadership whether good or bad. but they are still our leaders and we are still under authority to them and it was given them by Jesus until he returns.
1 Peter 5:2-4 (New International Version)
2 Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; 3 not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. 4 And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.