I was involved in perhaps 60-70 cases. None of them went down with a lot of drama. Perhaps this was a local phenomenon, but the only time this stuff got to me was when the society wrote the bodies a two page letter on pornography (which I hated) and after this came out it seemed that this brought the pervert out of some of the bros. I thought the letter was poorly written, ambiguous and encouraged the kind of prying the original post discussed. It was terrible. I didn't then, nor do I now want to know about this sort of crap. That last letter was such a bad idea. We had one gay elder that seemed creepily into discussing this stuff.
I suppose I just got fed up on so many levels I just had to walk.