Hell no. But the secret is to try not to dislike the dislikers in return. It really messes with their negative energy field. I am getting climatized!
Does everyone like you?
by asilentone 67 Replies latest jw friends
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truthseeker
OMG, Yiz, that's shocking.
Hope they catch him.
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Yizuman
I hope so too.
I'm keeping a baseball bat near me in case he tries to do something stupid. I'm scared to death of him. There's no telling what else he's capable of.
Yiz
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crapola
I would like to think that everyone likes me but that would be silly. I'm sure I've rubbed some people the wrong way. But that's ok. I like most people.
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straightshooter
I have some who like me, some don't care, and some hate me. Some who hate me, like my parents, were vocal in telling me that I am no longer one of their children. Even until their death bed, they reminded me of the hate they had towards me. That really hurt. Others I know that hate me talk behind my back, mainly certain elders. These I really don't care about because I usually never trusted them.
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FlyingHighNow
Hell no. But the secret is to try not to dislike the dislikers in return. It really messes with their negative energy field. I am getting climatized!
I agree. Sometimes though, it can be a cathartic experience to let the person know you think he/she is a crank, when he or she gets in your face.
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FlyingHighNow
Yizuman. I had to ask my own son to leave over a lot less. Your stepson has a lot of built up anger that he needs to deal with. I know your wife loves him, but she cannot expect you to have your son in your home if he is going to be dangerous and destructive. It's a matter of loving someone, but not allowing the person to disrupt the peace and saftey of your home and health.
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Yizuman
Yes he does have alot of pent up anger over the years. He's been in and out of Juvie jail since he was 14. Been under house arrest w/ ankle braclet monitor. Even after he turned 18, he got busted again for drugs. He's exactly like his dad genetically. So is the step-daughter. They both have his asshole genes.
I stopped by at a local store and asked when is their distributor comes in and they said Wednesday. So I asked for the boxes to be saved and will pick them up Thursday morning. I plan to pack up all his stuff and have my wife call his g/f to inform my step-son to get his stuff by next week Wednesday or it's in the trash. Since the cops are still looking for him, it's prolly gonna get trashed anyway. There's nothing of value in there, he trashed alot of stuff over the years out of anger. He may just get some of his friends to get them for him. We'll see.
He has holes in his room as a result of punching it all up. Plus a crapload of writings all over the wall, lots of vulgar words. Especially some to women, thinking they're nothing but whores, sluts, etc. I asked his g/f what she thought of them, she just shrug her shoulders. I guess she doesn't care what he thinks as long he's helping her get high and drunk. Plus he's got a buttload of pornography all over the walls.
He already had his previous g/f pregnant twice and won't pay child support. He doesn't give a rat's ass.
As for the walls in his bedroom, I have no idea how much it will cost to get them drywalled and painted over. I don't wanna see the estimates.
The whole thing still bothers me and what makes me angry is that he's forcing me to make drastic changes in the way how we live in our home. We don't feel safe with him on the loose.
Excuse me while I step outside to have a smoke. My hands is starting to shake, taking me longer to type all this up.
Yiz
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crapola
I'd think about getting a restraining order against him. At least that way he will know you are really serious about wanting him to leave you and his mother alone. And the police can get more involved faster. It's a shame to have to take such drastic steps but you have to protect yourself and your wife.
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Yizuman
If I had the money, I would. I think it costs like $80 dollars to get that filed. I'll check with the court clerk and see what's involved.
Thanks for the suggestion though.
Yiz