sacolton said...
As for sending money, Ray had received a donation of $300 for Betty from her brother in Madeira. Ray was concerned about sending the money directly to the nursing home and didn't trust them. So, he wanted me to ask her in person how she wanted to receive the money, if there was something she needed for her apartment or anything. She said she would like some new clothes. So, if you plan on sending any money, she doesn't have a bank account - only a small purse. She never leaves the nursing home, so she couldn't shop by herself.
I have a parent in a nursing home, they are only allowed to have so much money for their own personal use in the account they keep at the nursing home. I have no idea how it is elsewhere but would be a good idea to ask, It could cause Betty problems with the paying of her bills if they are paid by the government. And as far as her keeping it in her own purse, they steal money from the elderly people. My parent has had money stolen from their room on more than one occasion. I now just take them money if I know they is going to the meeting with any of the witnesses so they can go eat with them after the meeting or put money in the contribution box.
sacolton, I think what you are doing for her is so great, if she has no family, she has no visitors and I know that is what they enjoy the most. The elderly person in the room with my parent loves when I come visit because I visit with them as well, most there are very lonely people. The fact that you are willing to take her out shopping shows what a wonderful heart you have and what God is doing through you. Bless you so much. Just please don't forget about her and stop going. I am sure Jehovah will bless you greatly for what you are doing, and all the others who have offered help.